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Baby Dom/me/mx Bootcamp

Want to learn how to be a Dominatrix? Our famed bootcamp is now online! Over the course of 8 weeks you will harness the power of our personas, tie up our branding, and give our communication skills a big old enema. 

Designed to be taken weekly, but you can always binge it straight through.

Side hustle, full time gig, or a life-long dream, there’s always room for more in our 7DOD family. 



8 modules
16 hours



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Featured Guests

Empress Wu

Mia Darque

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Oran Julius

In addition to the Headmistresses of 7DOD, hear from our featured guest instructors in Weeks 2, 6, & 7.

We award TWO scholarships for BDBC every quarter.

For those facing financial hardship.
priority will be given to qtpoc 

applications are ongoing and will be announced the 1st of the following months in 2024:
March, June, Sept, Dec

What our Students have said: 

"I have been a fetish and kink friendly FSSW for about 4 years. I've wanted to transition part of my practice into domination and this class was very helpful for me to understand the differences and similarities between my two styles of SW"
Goddess Flora Sparks
"I never would have felt confident starting my career without your site and the baby Dom/me/mx bootcamp."
"BDBC has helped me demystify many things around working as Domme. I gained lots of great information that I know have saved me time and energy compared to if I were to do this all on my own."

Maybe you know how to wield a flogger, but now it’s time to whip your soft skills into shape.

Ever wonder how to get exactly the clients you want and feel good about seeing? Maybe you're stumped with the admin side of things, and wonder how the Pros get it all done? Feel like you're just barely treading water financially or emotionally between sessions? This bootcamp is jam packed with lessons, tricks, and heartfelt stories from seasoned professionals who have made BDSM a sustainable career. 

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What you get

  • Lifetime access to 8 weeks of guided training 
  • A PDF of our BDBC Workbook (170+ pages)
  • Weekly homework assignments
  • Weekly reflection questions + guided journaling exercises
  • Access to the BDBC Alumni forum to connect with other Dom/me/mx's all over the world!
  • The confidence, community, and information needed to start taking matters into your own hands.

What we cover in
this course

What it Takes to Become a Legend

It may surprise you the qualities and practices shared by those who have succeeded in this industry long-term. Knowing this going into your career will help you set up the right foundation for yourself.

Defining Your Own Success

 Is your level of success having X amount of sessions a week or is it more only taking *certain* types of sessions. Everyone success will be defined differently from the next.

Understanding your power

Domming isn't all demands and obedience, consider this your finishing school of being professionally dominant, personally. Domination isn't an entirely different world, but your approach willl be different (in a good way.)

House vs Independent

The landscape is a-changing, but even with that, which model is right for you and what can you expect going each route. Here we'll discuss not only the benefits and drawbacks to each model, but how you can use each to your advantage.

What’s in a name

Your name (and possibly your honorific) is one of the first things they'll see that represents YOU. How to make sure you stand out from the pack while also giving yourself room to change and grow. 

Face in & face out

Whether or not to show your face in your ads or in your online work is a personal choice only you can make. we talk about the pros and cons of each choice, as well as cover some overlooked risks. 
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Finding your niche & online persona

A niche can set you apart from others in the business, getting very specialized can only help your career. We'll cover how to find your niche, what to do when the niche chooses you, and how to turn your niche into a profitable endeavor both on and offline. 

Emails & Correspondence

Is your inbox a dumpster fire? there are shortcuts and infrastructure you can put in place to deter time wasters, eliminate booking barriers, and streamline the whole process from inquiry to IRL.

Creating Ads

in a post-backpage era, where the F%&# do we find clients? we talk about the various ad resources, directories, and online venues to connect with clientele, and go into detail on what makes an excellent advertisement.

Vetting & Safety

Safety is paramount in this business. We'll share our own processes for screening, learn how to write reference requests, and get a little Nancy Drew on the internet to ensure our sessions go smoothly. 


What does a professional negotiation look like pre session versus mid session. How do you account for the unaccountable?

Asking For What You Want

When's the last time you asked for, and received something you really wanted? We'll help you setup a framework of direct and indirect asks to put you on the road to success. 
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Common Newbie Mistakes

We've all had them, we've all heard them. Learn about the all too common pitfalls that may piss off other Pros, harm clients, or just be downright embarrassing.

When Sessions Go Wrong

 Better to plan to fail than fail to plan, amiright? No matter how much you plan or prepare, not every exchange will go as planned. From no shows to undisclosed health conditions to vengeful ex-wives. In this section, we will discuss the common adversities you may face as well as how to handle the unexpected.

First Time Sessions For Idiots

This is for those clients who don't know what they want specifically or how to get there. By teaching you your way around bullshittng a session for your own benefit, you'll be ready to tackle any session physical or mental where the client can be satisfied and you can learn about their needs while maintaining safety for both of you.

Marketing, Branding & Social Media

Some call it the necessary evil to the business, but how you present and market yourself is the first line of battle for any Pro-Dom/me these days. With an everchanging social media landscape, your marketing needs to be adaptable - just like you!
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Getting The Clients You Want

Fantasize about kidnapping scenes but it's just a barrage of foot requests in you inbox? Learn how to attract more of the clientele that you vibe with. 
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Culture, Etiquette & Social Proof

Just because you're newer doesn't mean you're any less welcome or embraced by the space and community. Learn how to navigate relationships amongst peers and build reputation.

Finances & Infrastructure

How do I pay taxes? How do I rent an apartment? What do I need to move out of the feast or famine mindset and into the financially stable one? 

Maintaining Client Relationships & The Role Of Regulars

Regulars are most folks' bread and butter. How do you keep the relationships fresh and exciting while also maintaining boundaries? 

Cash-flow Post Session

What is passive income and how do I make it? What can I do outside of sessions to keep the money rolling in? 

Money Talks

An honest discussion about rates and why "charge what you deserve" is bullshit. We face income inequality head on, tackle rate-shame and stigma, and address our collective emotional attachments to the numbers in our bank accounts. 


What does aftercare look like in a professional setting. What is Top Drop and how to accommodate for it.
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Frequently asked questions

When is the next live Baby Dom/me/mx Bootcamp?

We have in person Bootcamps twice a year (one and NYC and rotating cities) but the online version is only the pre-recorded one!

Are 7DOD classes captioned?

Yes! Recorded 7DOD classes all have closed captioning options you can turn on. All live classes are live-captioned via Zoom as well.

How long do I have access to each course?

If you’ve bought a course outright, you have lifetime access. If you have a membership your access lasts as long as your membership is active.

Is this just for Pros?

While all of our presenters are Pros, our students have a wide range of interests, experiences and kinks. Pros, lifestylers, kink-curious, clients, allies, researchers, and fetishists have all enjoyed our classes

BDBC Overview

Exceptional experiences with automatically extracted transcripts, quizzes etc.

Week 1
What It Takes To Become A Legend
Defining Your Own Success
Understanding Your Power
House Vs Independent

Week 4
Asking For What You Want
Common Newbie Mistakes

Week 7
Finances & Infrastructure
Maintaining Client Relationships
The Role Of Regulars
Cash-flow Post Session

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Week 2
What’s In A Name 
Face In & Face Out 
Finding Your Niche & Online Persona

Week 3
Emails & Correspondence
Creating Ads
Vetting & Safety

Week 5
When Sessions Go Wrong
First Time Sessions For Idiots

Week 6
Marketing, Branding & Social Media (without losing your sanity)
Getting The Clients You Want
Culture, Etiquette, & Social Proof

Week 8
Money Talks

7 Days of Domination Headmistresses & Guest Instructors

Boss Lola Jean and Mistress Shayla Lange
Headmistresses Lola Jean and Shayla Lange have been throwing kink education events since 2017 - they've taught hundreds of folks, and helped dozens of folks launch their SW careers. 
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